Premarital Coaching for Engaged Couples — St. Louis Metropolitan Area and Nationally

Build a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

Your wedding is one day — your marriage is for life. At The Premarital Architect, I help engaged couples prepare for marriage with a proven 7-week coaching program designed to strengthen communication, deepen connection, and set you up for a thriving future together.

With nearly 30 years of experience working with couples, I combine practical relationship tools with personal coaching tailored to your unique personalities and goals. Whether you are looking to prevent common marriage pitfalls or simply build a stronger foundation, I will guide you every step of the way.

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Before you invest in your wedding, you should invest in your marriage.

If you are planning to get married soon and you are looking for a pre-marriage coach, I’m your guy.

If you are planning to get married soon and you are looking for a pre-marriage coach, I’m your guy.

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Kaylie O.
11 reviews 33d ago

Monty has helped my fiancé and I immeasurably. I am eternally grateful for the care and attention we received during our time with him. His empathy and compassion is beyond anything I could’ve possibly expected. We left every session feeling refreshed and excited to take on life together. Monty makes sure his clients feel comfortable and cared for. I recommend him to anyone seeking premarital counseling. I was more than pleased with our time together!

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Why Choose Premarital Coaching?

Many couples prepare for their wedding day but overlook preparation for their marriage. My coaching program focuses on:

  • Communication skills you will actually use in everyday life

  • Conflict resolution techniques to handle disagreements with respect

  • Personality and compatibility assessments to help you understand each other better

  • Money and future planning so you are aligned on big decisions

  • Practical tools you can keep using for decades to come

About the Program

Dealing with Conflict

Learn how to deal with conflict from a position of health, fairness, and resolution.

A Personality Assessment

Complete a comprehensive personality assessment to determine your similarities and discover your differences so that you can be prepared for potential hotspots in your marriage.

Seven Weeks

Over the course of 7 weeks, we meet once a week (virtually or in person for St. Louis-area couples) to cover the key areas that make or break marriages. You will also complete a professional relationship assessment to pinpoint strengths and growth areas, giving us a personalized roadmap for your sessions.

Marriage Mentors

Discover marriage mentors who will agree to do life with you and your mate. 

Finish with Confidence

 Complete your premarital coaching journey with the confidence and tools necessary to enjoy a lifelong marriage. 

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Serving the St. Louis Metropolitan Area and Couples Nationwide

Whether you are local to St. Louis or living across the country, you will receive the same personalized, high-impact coaching experience. Virtual sessions make it easy to connect no matter where you are.

Increase your chances for marriage success.

Couples who engage in premarital coaching are 30% more likely to succeed in their marriage.

“We received way more than we expected from The Premarital Architect!”

– K & S Davis.